The Soap Opera Lesson

When you come to live in a new country and you would like to find out about its society, culture and customs then watch soap operas on TV; even if you don't understand the language, like Arabic for example. That shouldn't really bother you, because all that matters is the way people communicate with each other regardless of what they are saying.

Soap operas are just ideal for this purpose. In fact, in soap operas you will be able to witness how people interact with each other in a specific culture. So when you watch Arabic soap operas, from the Gulf for instance, the first thing you will quickly notice is the volume level in which people over here talk to each other. No, they are not arguing, as you might think, but just having a normal conversation. So don't worry when your Arabic colleague raises his voice above the European acceptable courtesy level, he is probably just asking where you put the report he is looking for.

Another notable characteristic is the vivid gesticulation during a lively discussion. Throwing their hands and arms all through the air while having a conversation does not mean that the speaker is practicing his latest martial arts moves on you, but he is underlining his argumentation. This is a persuasive speaking technique that takes a little getting used to though, but as long as you learn to duck at the right moment you will be fine.

Oh yes, there is, of course, a storyline to the soap, but the distinctive mimic and body language that usually replace the missing acting skills tells it all.